Rambling

I can't help it. Every day I look at my "RSVP Tracker" for the wedding, I get more and more frustrated. I added up the totals today... I am missing 49 RSVPs. I sent out 99... the math adds up to 50% of the people who received invitations have not RSVP'd! I set a deadline of August 15, which is just 9 days away... I'd say it's highly unlikely that the other 50% are all planning to send the RSVP in within the next week. Hmm...

On a happy note, Gary is coming home on Sunday! I've kept myself busy while he's been gone, and my best friend Mishele has stayed over a few nights, but there hasn't been a moment I haven't missed him. Even hearing him work in the garage was comforting... I'm looking forward to the loud noises again!

I don't have much to say today - I was up way too late last night looking at wedding centerpiece ideas and then worked bright and early this morning. Planning on cleaning the house a bit, then lounging on my couch watchin' movies... GIRLY movies, since Gary isn't around to tell me no ;)

Gary's first day of "vacation"

How lucky am I to get to marry a man who is so easy going, that even when every plan he had for a day goes south, he can still manage to sit back and laugh?

Today Gary was scheduled to leave Minneapolis at 6am to go to Milwaukee for a connecting flight to Tampa. Well, because of a hydraulic leak on the plane, the flight was delayed. Finally, at noon, the plane had been fixed and Gary was on his way to Milwaukee. Obviously, the flight to Tampa ha already left and there was no way he could get on another flight to Tampa today. Instead, he asked them to fly him into Atlanta. He figured Ese could then start the drive (since ultimately they had to go through Atlanta anyway) and pick him up at the Atlanta airport. Well, Ese's car broke down about an hour 1/2 away from Atlanta. What a mess! Ed sent his friends to the Atlanta airport to pick him up and told them to stay at a hotel for tonight. Luckily, from what I have read in texts, they are all reunited and will get a trailer for Ese's car first thing tomorrow morning. The original plan was for Gary and Ese to drive the little 2-seater (without AC) CRX to Cali, but now that will not be possible.

Despite everything going wrong today, when Gary called to tell me, he was laughing. He found it so humorous and said, "I actually really like being left alone with nobody I know in an unknown state." It made me so thankful for him, because in his shoes I'd be freaking out... I'm so happy he is still looking forward to this road trip, and that he can laugh about it :)

Still pray for him...

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

It's so true what they say... "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." Gary left this morning (I took him to the airport at 4am!) to help our old roommate drive from Florida to California. He is such a wonderful friend! He took an unpaid week vacation to help his friend out- I'm so happy to know that he will always take the shirt off his back for his friends, family, and ME! There aren't many people left in this world that would do that.

I've cried. A lot. Last night I tried focusing on the movie we were watching, but couldn't help but think about the week I'd spend alone... nobody coming home at night to ask about my day and give me the hugs and kisses I need so much, nobody to eat dinner with, nobody to fall asleep next to... Sigh. It's only one week... but that is a long time to be without someone you want to spend every waking moment with. Today has been a rough day. I've been finishing some wedding things (and they look so great... a picture of our city-themed stationery is above!), but every now and then my mind will shift back to Gary being gone for a week and my eyes fill with tears. Believe me, I know what you're thinking and I completely agree. I'm such a SAP! I'm such a wuss that I can't handle him being gone for even 1 week. But I'm thankful he left- because sometimes I get "used" to having him around. I don't always make it a point to appreciate the fact that he's around. So when he leaves, I'm reminded that I could never do life without him. I'd never WANT to. After a week of me without him, I know I'm going to jump out of my car next Sunday and run into his arms and appreciate him more than I have in quite a while.

I can't wait to see him...

If you think of it, please pray for his safe travels with his friends Daniel and Ed! They are driving across a lot of unknown territory, in a 2-seat car without A/C.