Wedding Planning

Today, I have decided to blog about wedding things. Obviously, our wedding has consumed a lot of my mind, time, and money. To be totally honest, I'm not like most brides... I don't actually enjoy this stuff. A few "projects" here and there pique my interest, but overall, wedding planning is not for me. If I had the funds and had the chance to do it over again, I'd hire somebody to do the planning for me. I can't count the number of times I have said to my mom, "Mom, I've never done this before!" to explain the mistakes I've made. Anyways...

Another thing about weddings is that they can be tough; you learn a lot about the people around you who you consider friends. Let's start with my former "best friend." She was very close to me while I lived in Florida. Before I had moved to Florida, we had only met a couple times. Her and I stayed in touch when I moved and she made a few trips down. I thought "Dang! This girl really cares about me to take the time off work to visit!" So when Gary proposed, I was so excited to ask her to be my Maid of Honor. I was so excited to do wedding planning with her when I moved home! Well, when I got back to Minnesota, she didn't have time for me. She had a busy schedule; understandable, but it seemed like she was mostly busy with everybody else but me. When we arranged for her to come see me in the dress I had picked out, she met me at the bridal shop. I was already in my dress standing under the bright "stage" lights, so excited to see her face when she walked in. Well... she walked in and all she said was, "It took me 45 minutes to get here." We were at the bridal shop for a good hour, and never once did she comment on my dress... I felt like I should have been in sweats; then her reaction would have been appropriate.

After the bridal shop, we headed to dinner with my family. I was already raging internally at this point. Well, over dinner my mom started talking to her about her plans to move out of state... she responded to something my mom asked with, "Well, I have to come home for Kenzie's crap.." TO MY OWN MOTHER. Obviously, that was the final straw. I quickly cut her out of my wedding and my life completely. While it hurt to experience that in what was supposed to be a very happy day, I got the best thing ever out of it... the best Maid of Honor on earth, Mishele! Mishele should have been my first choice all along, but I hadn't remembered how close we were while we were living in separate states (believe me, no matter how much you say you're going to keep in touch with someone, it's not as easy as one may think!). Once I moved home we got right back into the groove of our friendship. Now I couldn't be happier to know she'll be by my side on our wedding day!

Next story... well... someone deleted me from her facebook once she found out she wasn't invited to the wedding. This is someone I have seen once since moving home, and talked to maybe a total of 10 times (via facebook only!). I had to laugh at the immaturity. When I got engaged, I had been warned that you'd find out a lot about your "friends" during the engagement... so true!

I never thought things would change when we got engaged, but they absolutely did. Not necessarily to our relationship or to us, but the people around us. It has been quite the journey, and while I am SO excited for the day to finally be here, I am also excited for it to be over and for Gary and I to be husband and wife without all of our time and money going into a single day's event (although it will be the event of my life!).

That's all I've got... useless rambling.

Happy Thursday :)

What a weekend!

Wow! What an amazing weekend!

Friday night I made it to the Frolics for fireworks. I'm impressed... Crystal didn't do too shabby! We were in bed decently early (midnight..) to prepare ourselves for Saturday morning. We were up and out of the house at 7:15am Saturday to go run the Boston Scientific Heart of the Summer 5k around Lake Nokomis. My goal going into it was to finish in under 35 minutes, since I hadn't been able to do it under 39 minutes on the treadmill. WELL... I did it in 34:50! I had gotten close enough to see the timer when it was at about 34:40, and so I used every last bit of energy I had to sprint (yes, literally sprint!) to the finish line. I was so happy to be done, and to have reached my goal. I'm also so proud of my fellow 5k finishers, Robin, Christin, Christine and Gary :) Congrats guys!!!

After the 5k, we went to the Red Bull flugtag event at Harriet Island. It was absolute MADNESS but so worth it! The world record was set there (of course, leave it to Minnesota to kick ass!) at 207 feet.. the previous world record was 195 feet, and the US record was 155 feet. Miami's winner made it 54 feet, to put it in perspective. You can see the amazing world record-setting flight here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Im8VtLQgh4

After we got home, we had a couple friends over and made our way over to a Frolics pre-party. All I will say about the party is that it was interesting. We went to Frolics again and had a good time running into a few old friends! Finally I got to go to bed and Sunday morning woke up for the BIG weekend event... SKYDIVING!!

I can't even begin to explain the skydiving experience. It was a mix of emotions, but mainly it was excitement!! I was not nervous on my way up in the plane- I felt I had finally gotten rid of my nerves by then and was ready to just go. I actually yawned on the way up, and Gary's tandem instructor looked at me and said, "was that a YAWN?" Finally, I was up. I made my way to the open door 13,000 feet above land, and all the nerves came rushing back. But there was no time to change my mind, and the videographer wanted to see me smile. I put on the best fake smile I could, and the next thing I knew I was falling. Free falling at 120mph! It was the most insane feeling I ever have, and probably ever will, have. I was scared out of my mind, and freezing... it is COLD up there! When the instructor tapped me after a minute of free falling, I knew it was time to hang on because the parachute would [hopefully] be opening. Well, IT DID! After seeing the amazing view (of sky and farms...), we came down to land. Well... although I KNEW I was not supposed to put my feet down at all, I didn't want to get serious grass stains on my jeans, so after my butt hit, I put my feet down. BAD IDEA. We weren't done moving and my feet/ankles took a beating. I woke up today barely able to walk- but if that's the only injury I have from skydiving, I'd say it was a success!! I got extremely nauseous while in the air and it lasted until about an hour after the jump. I'm glad I had the video and pictures to remind me how much fun I was having when I wasn't thinking about puking! :) I WILL do it again, and I can't wait.

So that was my weekend. It was slam packed with amazing activities, but I'm extremely happy to be back at work to "relax" ;) I was thanking God this morning for a desk job...

Happy to have lived through the weekend!

Blogging two times in one week... well, already doing better than I've done in the past. Sad, but true! So bummer news... I have this AMAZING weekend planned. I got to work this morning and felt fine. All of a sudden, around 9, my stomach started to hurt SO bad. I couldn't stay at work past 10:30 because it kept getting worse. Now, finally, my stomach isn't hurting, but I still feel so HOT and sweaty, but I don't have a fever. Odd... still resting up so I can go to Frolics tonight. I just can't let sickness ruin my weekend plans!

Tomorrow I am running a 5K with some of my girls and the future hubby. I've run one 5k before and finished in just over 31 minutes. Well, I've been "practicing" on the treadmill and it is now taking me over 39 minutes to finish 3.1 miles! I'm so disappointed. I've got my fingers crossed that the crowd and outdoors will help me run it in/around 31 minutes. We will see... I'll give you an update when it's over.

After the 5k, we are heading over to Harriet Island to see Red Bull's Flug Tag competition! It will be the first time it has come to MN, and I'm so excited I get to be there! And Sunday... well, Sunday is going to be the scariest day of my life thus far. I am going skydiving! I'll be jumping out of a perfectly good airplane from 13,000 feet above the ground. I got this urge to skydive when I went to watch Bryan and Gary jump in June. I felt so comfortable there, because there were so many people jumping... well, now that it's been over a month since I was there, I DON'T remember that comfort and am scared out of my mind. I jump around 10:30am, so if you're reading this and you remember on Sunday morning, say an extra little prayer for me! I've still got a bit of anxiety so come up with all these crazy things that could happen to me while jumping; none of them are practical fears, but I can't help it! Like what if I come unattached from the instructor and fall to my death? What if the parachute doesn't open at all and we both tumble to the ground? What if.. nevermind. It's a lost cause and I'm jumping whether I'm ready for it or not!

Happy weekend to you all. Have a safe and fun one!

The Past Year

I'm going to start this blog off with a disclaimer... I suck at blogging. I'm honestly not sure what has given me the idea to try, yet again, to keep up with a blog.

A lot has been going in my life to say the least. Thankfully, the majority of what has has happened has been great things. Since moving back to Minnesota last April (2009), I have had so many life changes. First, it was buying our first house! We found a perfect 3 bed/1 bath house with a nice fenced in backyard near a lake. We have 2 2-car detached garages, which of course makes Gary a VERY happy boy. Neither of us wanted to buy in Crystal, since we grew up in the neighboring city, but when we found this perfect gem with everything we were looking for in our price range, we couldn't say no. We quickly jumped on it and worked with the sellers to figure out a deal. We closed in June 2009 and have been SO happy with the biggest purchase of our lives. Shelby LOVES the backyard, and Gary (and his friends) love the train tracks in the back... they're still young at heart and hop on the train every chance they get. I know I know... not safe. But what can you do - boys will be boys.

Also, in October 2009, I accomplished something I never even wanted to do... I got my MBA! Apparently I'm supposed to be smart now and do lots of great things in life, but honestly I don't think it changed much except for the amount I have to pay to student loans each month. Ok ok, I'll give my education some credit... I landed a great job... but I think anybody who is motivated and dedicated can get a great job without a graduate degree! HOWEVER.. I will never regret getting my MBA. I feel like I understand a lot more about business (well, I'd better hope so, after all that $$$ that went into teaching me about business) and life in general. I understand management's decisions a little more than I had previously.

I started working at Boston Scientific last July (again, 2009) as a temporary worker. I started as a Contract Facilitator, was moved into a Contract Facilitator role, then had a door open for me to step into another temporary role of a Contract Administrator. I wasn't qualified for the Administrator position, but because the person they had in the role put in her 2-week notice unexpectedly, they needed someone. They figured they would "borrow" me until they could hire someone else to do the job. WELL, I wasn't having that- I can do anything they'll let me do. I asked if they could try me out for the job on a temporary basis, then when it was posted for hire I would apply, knowing that I was not guaranteed the job. Thankfully, I was offered the job and of course accepted! I truly see myself being with the company for a very, very long time. I've met a lot of great people and learned SO much. Plus, the benefits are out of this world.

We are also, of course, planning our upcoming wedding. It is now only 73 days away! 73!!! It is so exciting that we are that close to being Mr. & Mrs. Rude. It just sounds so... perfect. So fitting. So everything I ever wanted. :) Planning a wedding is one of the hardest things I've had to do, especially since we are on a budget. Trying to make beautiful decorations that don't cost a ton is really tough when you're not all that creative. Things are slowly but surely coming together, and I'm confident that no matter the decorations that show up, our wedding day will be so beautiful!

Since this post is already much too long (there is so much that I need to catch so many people up on!), I'm going to let you rest your eyes. I hope this blog (although I am 99% sure there won't be many posts... because, well, life happens) can keep me in touch with some of those I have lost touch with over the years, and can update those who are far away... I know I love reading about what is going on in other's lives, so I hope someone will find this blog interesting or at least a great way to procrastinate on more important things.

Happy hump day!